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Tuesday 24 October 2017

How Soon Can You Find Out Baby's Sex?

Question

How soon can I find out my baby's sex? I know you can sometimes tell by using ultrasound, but are there any other reliable methods that are used?

    Answer

    This is one of the most common questions I receive from parents-to-be. Most patients undergo an ultrasound at around 18-20 weeks (about four and a half to five months). Normally, at this stage of pregnancy we can determine the baby's sex, but not always. The position of the baby during the ultrasound is the most important aspect in our ability to tell the baby's sex, andthere's no way to influence that. For obvious reasons, it's usually easier to see if the baby is a boy.

    For more info, click here.

    Today's Appointment at RIPAS Hospital (24 Oct 2017)

    Tuesday, 24 Oct 2017
    15 Weeks 2 Days

    Today's appointment is just doing routine check up.
    I kept on losing weight, hard to gain weight eh...mcm mayra duluπŸ˜•
    Blood pressure was fine, 104/61

    Checked baby's heartbeat using a fetal doppler, no sound. no heartbeat😰
    Panic sekajap...
    Doctor said it's pretty normal tho, since my belly has too much fat lol...
    Fetal doppler will only be able to detect heartbeat around week 14-16
    Sometimes 12-14 weeks, esp kalau skinny girls lah..

    So she decided to do an ultrasound just to make sure baby was okay.
    and Alhamdulillah, my lil bunny active garak2 hihi....I guess pasal tadi I ate chocolate before jumpa doctor.

    So far, everything went well, thanks to Allah....

    next meeting will be on 31 Oct 2017, for anomaly scan. or anatomy scan. not sure if they are similar tho. written on paper was anatomy, but the doctor said we're gonna be doing anomaly #shrug# πŸ’

    Sunday 22 October 2017

    Anxiety

    22 Oct 2017
    15 weeks 0 days

    I have an anxiety issue....it gets worse in every pregnancy. will talk about this in my next post.... too tired already

    Our NT Scan did not go well as planned ... not happy with the doctor

    Today is Sunday, 22 Oct 2017
    15 weeks 0 days


    NT Scan is actually done to detect whether baby has any chromosomal abnormality.
    It is ONLY accurate if done in between week 11 and 14 gestational age, if done after week 14 it wont be of no use.

    During my first pregnancy haritu, we did this test 3 times.

    The first one was at RIPAS, tho it was a very brief check, sekajap saja di check nya. atupun she did that after we requested *pff* otherwise she would have not done it.

    Inda puas hati, so the second test was done arah Dr Ding Yayasan, machine quality wise was superb ! So tarang. Clean and clear. His explanation pun patut di puji lah. Worth the money walaupun mahal sikit, but memang sangat2 berbaloi.... let me recall ah, if not mistaken he charged us in between $80-120

    Third test, we did arah CY Lim Clinic di Gadong. tho machine nya inda berapa tarang, but we really like the way this one particular doctor membari explanation, very friendly lagi we were so comfortable being with her and she was never karit to give us the printouts banyak2. was charged around $50-75, sorry inda berapa ingat. oh ya, the doctor's name was Dr Emy, but unfortunately she is no longer there, kana replace by Dr Faridah. She's okay.

    So.........

    This current pregnancy, we did arah CY Lim clinic sebab kan save cost *πŸ˜‹*

    We went there on Tuesday night, 10th October 2017, kalau ikut perkiraan I was about 13 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

    Side note: by right kalau ikutkan the first day of my last mensus, I was supposed to be 14 weeks and 2 days pulang hari atu, but our two earlier scans measured a week behind, so we assume it to be 13 weeks and 2 days lah ah...

    Went there, Dr Faridah was on leave for a month, so I had to choose this Chinese female doctor lah im not sure what was her name, lupa sudah πŸ˜…

    The moment she saw us, Mayra time atu was on the weighing scale, so she just stood there and observed. She asked me, how old was Mayra , so I told her lah coming 1 yr 10 months. She asked my husband, what was her weight. Husband said 9 point something. She said "haaaa??? she's underweight !" while pointing to Mayra. Dalam hatiku, there goes again.... *sigh* ....Mayra is  a very picky eater, very fussy, memilih makanan, and she eats too slow...pokok pangkalnya, anak ku ani inda suka makan but she loves to play. Very active lil girl.

    Kalau Dr Joel, a Paediatrician (dont mind the spelling pls?) from JPMC he would not and will never say something like that to small kids apatah lagi to the parents. He actually prefers small babies, asalkan active katanya. and he would not suggest any medications or supplements.

    But this chinese doctor from CY Lim, sigh... sudah tah serious mukanya mcm kan makan orang 😝, then she asked me to give Mayra supplement mcm Appelin and apakah lagi satu atu I cant remember.

    Sorry doctor, not that Im against those ubat2an, but I rather not have my kids mkn synthetic drugs unless kalau banar2 perlu. actually before pregnant dulu I rather opt for homeopathy punya ubat2an for my kids but nak buat mcm mana kan... Dr Zainal sudah passed away 😭

    She said to give Mayra Appelin until she reaches 10kg, after that can stop lah. DUI ALANG2.... she was around 9.6kg-9.8kg at that time, then 10kg stop?? I actually had the urge to laugh at her face but of course, I slowly rejected her offer. I said to her, I came to visit her bukan pasal mayra, but it's about my baby in my belly, wanna do NT scan. sigh.... (oh by the way, today Mayra punya weight 10.1kg sudah)

    Cut story short, pasal ngaleh sudah typing, baby was measured at 14 weeks 3 days !!! a week and a day ahead !!! woahhh....baby is growing up so fast....slalunya kalau scan ia slalu a week behind.

    So the doctor refused to do NT scan pasal it's above the recommended gestational age, instead she only did routine and anatomy test saja, mcm measure kepala, badan, check to make sure all the organs are there, making sure baby is all well and normal.

    But one thing yg we dont like about this doctor, she acts as if she knows everything and that she's always right, seolah2 patient ani should have no say. sorry, but no sorry...

    We were so hampa when she said this...

    "Actually NT Scan should only be done on week 11 and that's about it"

    Then I said to her "But doctor, isnt NT scan can be carried out from week 11 to week 14"

    she said "no no no, only around week 11 you should do NT scan. if now you want to do NT scan, only through blood test"

    paning ku....

    even DR DING ever said to me, NT Scan can be done as long as it does not pass the 14th week mark.

    this indian doctor from RIPAS also said the same thing, from 11 weeks to 13 weeks 6 days only ujarnya.

    we didn't know baby would be of that gestational age, because we were pretty confident baby time atu only around 13 weeks 2 days πŸ˜”

    apa tah salahnya, check kan tah saja dulu......apa jua 3 days late (since baby measured 14 weeks 3 days) and since we were there and we were paying...but ia mcm inda mau buat...sedih ku eh....

    never knew there's a blood test for NT tho....never heard about it...and it costs around $500ish...government clinic pun ada buat, she also said she can make a referral letter, kataku no need lah...menyamal ku sudah...

    so now...we tawakkal saja lah, we can only pray that our baby is all well and he/she will lead a very healthy life nanti...

    sorry ayat beterabur...it's already late, and I'm so sleepy.

    will post another time...